I’m continually amazed where college students find themselves after high school and before entering the organized work force. It’s a strange land where a 20 year old finds his or herself, stranded, somewhat by choice, yet somewhat by lot. It’s a place of expectation. It’s a place that sees you exit organized church life. You discover you’re in a new land when suddenly… you get to make all the choices, you can eat what you want, when you want, where you want, with whom you want. You have very little accoutability. Your parents know you’re headed towards complete independance so they roll with things, since you have most of the power of choice now anyway. Yet there are those times when you need money or something you don’t have… that your parents still have. Hehe… There’s this uneasy tension for you. You’re trying to do it on your own, but because you’re not all the way there, some are not even close… you gotta suck up your pride and ask for help. But then, hours later, maybe minutes, when you’re in your car, having left the house and neighborhood you grew up in, you text your friends and you’re back rocking again in the college life again. Though this land breeds thrills and adventure, it also opens the door to many other rooms that hold potential danger. Because you’re pretty much on your own now, you think you can handle it. This is the moment of truth. Can you handle making difficult choices dealing with temptation, peer pressure, choices that can affect not just your present but your future? Your forever! Who knows how many angels are watching you, holding their celestial breath as you teeter on the edge of one slippery slope after another. This strange land has sent many, many back home to Mom and Dad, some even to a more permanent place. Somehow, this land of independance allows most of its sojourners to exit its borders in one piece. You are the lucky one. You’ve begun to define yourself for all the world to see, and judge. Will the time you’ve spent here been worth the money, time, stress, fear and boredom? Are the lessons you learned, that can only be learned in this srange land, will they be heeded in years to come? Or will you quietly find perhaps another land, a new land, to fade into and explore? So much is at stake in this strange land that college students abide in. So many enter its courts with promise and hope. So few come out of it whole and healthy, really mature in the important things. This land can develop skills and abilities in its inhabitants, potential applauded by others….. but will it produce character, integrity and a healthy fear of God? That’s a question for those living in this strange land….